This poem reminds me of the power of being present, the ministry that happens when you leave your agenda behind and simply meet people where they are at.
When you are deep in grief it is such a gift to have a person who doesn’t have to fix it, change it or make it anything other than what it is. Grief is often hard, heavy and difficult… woven with hope, healing and brief moments of respite, but so much of the time it is just heavy. People spend so much time wanting and trying to be someplace other than where they are at… missing, longing and hurting for the dreams that have died, the person who is gone or for the things that aren’t the way they wish they were… and doing anything to not feel all that comes with that.
It is a beautiful reminder to ourselves to allow the fullness of what is, knowing that “no feeling is final”. There is a freedom in allowing what is, not fighting it, knowing that it won’t always be this way, but that for now, it is.
If we are lucky, we have these people in our lives who can meet us in the midst of deep grief. Today I would invite you to meet yourself there. Allow yourself to be where you are, meet yourself with the holy reverence you reserve for those you deeply love and allow yourself to be right where you are.
“Let everything happen to you
Beauty and terror
Just keep going
No feeling is final”
―
Erica Staab 